Aren’t we aware of the complications inside a true and charismatic relationship? Well, let me lay down some of the check pointers.
Amidst watching a movie, hearing a lyrical tune, a saga of lovey dovey romance; all we get is a proper rhyme with some uncontrollable anxiousness to be followed. These pretty disruptive illusions tend to take you away from the real love you have for the person. Continue reading
Yes, you might be in love with her.
The love as fresh as the first drop of water during drought; like the bee hives clinging with the batch of honey; the same way the bud, responsive towards the petals and the leaves; and some appropriate context of sugar, lime, and cinnamon to keep the romanticism of the morning regime alive. Believe me, she knows if you didn’t love her you wouldn’t ever be with her.
I know you deal with your distinct emotions all the time; but please don’t fall for her in all the wrong ways subconsciously. An ideal relationship can transform to a curse if not focused appropriately. She has a crater which will shatter her the day she realizes she deserves more than she is being offered.
Nevertheless, I wish and pray that you stop loving her in all the wrong ways. Don’t forget to shower each ray of conscious hope to make her realize she is celebrated for whatever she has done and planning to do in future as well. You must have an idea of how that consciousness is the reason for the strength in a relationship.
Do you remember the time when you saw her the first time? The combination of everything you ever wanted to come across. Right from her eyes, to honest smiles, cute wilderness, necessary independence, and her confusing sense of humor, there has been something which you have longed to find in the crowd. And she came to make you realize that dreams come true. She is right there like a dream in front of you, with a craving to meet, from forever.
And something which charmed you the most was her wholesomeness.
You say you love her than let her be this way. Why do you wish to change something you have longer for? Let her be the same with that promise ring you gave her and she will keep you surprising with the optimism she has in stores. Let her be beautiful, enjoy her wilderness, and cherish the wholesomeness.
Have you seen her writing the pages of the destiny? I hope you know why she has let you stay. Because she wanted to keep the reason for her broadened smile forever. You became the reason where her pages flipped yet never finishes. Suddenly her destiny intertwined with all of you.
She has been the creator of her own desires, giving them a route. I hope you will understand how you became a part of each route. Believe me, your expression towards her, establishes her identity to herself; she basically has started looking at you from your eyes – You are shouldering the responsibility being a mirror for her now. You will be the reason for her glow; if she gets lost; the reason for her depression; also the reason for her success.
Choose wisely as per what you want her to be – She depends on you by all means, subconsciously.
She becomes a puppet of your actions and highly considers the swiftness you handle her with, for all the time. Believe me, you are loathed with much more than the thought of ever.
And if you are in that kind of love with her, please start revitalizing it all. As her demons can only find a solace beneath your angels.
Remember that she was once ignited and thrashed – another blow is not she is looking for all this while. If she is trying to be with you for so long please understand how she is leaving behind the fears, shivers, and insecurities so that you can cherish her. Don’t let them enter again as she has been victimized once, brutally. She has still tried to get away from the past just to make the emotion of love work. She longs for it. Believe me!
She has made you the keeper of all her fears to change into the securities. She is insecure please know she needs love and care and attention. Please don’t disappoint her. You have been the only ray of hope for her.
You know what, the era of fights start when you think you have examined her fears and affection completely.
She isn’t a book which can be completed rather a series which has new pages associated – thrilling yet surprising. She’s something yet to be discovered—Please wake up each day like you saw her for the first time – Fresh and unopened.
Try to be available. She is craving for your presence – the emotional one. If she is now awarded with the availability, you will see her rising eventually. Believe me, distance is just a myth. Try to be there all day long yet she will feel aloof, or be miles apart yet she will fell the warmth. Depends on how you take it.
Kindle her expressions, her wants, her desires, her selflessness. Enroute her soul like an alien fascinated by the land; the same way you would want to travel each and every part of the world.
Believe me, you will smash her if she ever gets to know that she is just a necessity more than a passion. You will further smash her when you want to have a conversation with her according to your comfortability. She craves to see you present. She wants to have that right. Because you are the only one she wishes to run to during her weakness or come to cherish her success with – Not just when you feel trapped and you seek an understanding. Look past what have you done to her.
I don’t disagree with your fights and sufferings of the past. She will be there to ooze out all her love to make you feel like a kind. She is independent yet dependent. She is not looking for someone to fix her up, neither do you. She has the capacity to blossom each part of you. But if you only strike when destiny plays a card on you, she will face the final smash. Know how she has compromised and adjusted silently for you.
She unfolded the pages just to feel an extra ounce of security and stability – giving that you could understand her being, herself, her emotions, her wrath. Did she tell you all this because she thought of getting fixed? No. She shared because she wished to tell you the reason of why and how she stands today – Firm yet scared, shivering and anxious.
She is looking forward to you to recognize— that the measures aggravated by affection, indulgent, and endurance surely matters of how you both stand.
If she has shared her shapelessness, don’t treat her as you know her cracks rather take her wholly in her shell. Let her come to you to join her missing pieces as she will glow more in the process.
Believe me. Hug her tight, kiss her hard when she looks deeper in your eyes and than apart.
Know her; she shouts because she feels like a loser for her insecurities have grown and it all needs to be satiated. Hear her inhibitions as she has taken a toll to start speaking in front of you. Talk to her hand in hand while making sure she oozes out just to forget it with time. Be the reason for her calmness and she would cross oceans for you. Understand her because all she wants is a support.
Let love be the reason to reunite your existence because a zing never happens again. The cupid has struck, let it stay. When she shares her naked soul is when she believes; you will protect the framing of her thoughts and restlessness striving to turn it all into the best.
You are her mirror now – where she comes to reconfirm her craziness, wilderness, and independence. Be ready to accept her the way she is and things will turn fine.
If you are in love with her start structuring her as she has already been doing it for you. If she knows that your effort has started, she will make it work double while adding her part. Believe me, she is way different than you or your counterparts think.
Believe me, if you take her to watch the romantic sunset, she’ll be the reason for all your successful sunrises. Believe me, if you take her for a lunch, she will bring in all the flavors you have missed so far. Believe me, if you will treat exactly the way she deserves to be, she will surprise your instincts doubling the happiness repeatedly. Believe me, if you will love her passionately, she will thank god each day. And if you take her to gaze at the twinkling sky, she will bring the entire universe at your doorstep.
Yes, the heart sank knowing the reality of not standing beside him on his cherished day. I wanted to shed the tears grieving the distance rather chose to make the entire day a hefty ride.
While expressing the wrenching separation, I searched if I am considered valuable enough to be the part of his marked dates of celebration. Sadly I wasn’t.
Perhaps he wished but couldn’t. This makes me introspect the failed reasons to accomplish a wish. How much of a sorry behavior can a self-created world transform? According to me, it is immeasurable! Continue reading